Marriage can be a complicated thing. After being in ministry for over a decade, I have seen my fair share of rough marriages. In my experience, ongoing marital tensions often exist because of an unwillingness to communicate or forgive one another. For some reason, most people go into a marriage believing their spouse will make them whole or complete. Then, suddenly, the human condition appears. Surprise! Everyone has problems, and the spouse is exposed to those problems at a level that no other human will ever see. For better or worse… right?